Seva No. 46: LHSG founder member Monica Gokaldas
7th March 2025, I went to visit a family for grief trauma healing. This was the father in law and sister in law of the deceased (my patient AN who passed away last month).
I was told that the father in law was very concerned about her health and lost his memory due to a seizure a day before she passed away from cancer. Since then his condition has improved and he recognizes everyone but he has stopped talking and has just understood about the daughter in law’s demise. When someone mentions her name, he appears emotional but doesn’t cry.
The sister in law told me that they still feel the presence of AN in the house so I stood with her in AN’s bedroom and set up the sacred space, did Ho’oponopono with her and guided her to go with the light and carry on, on her onward journey. There was a sudden lightness in the room.
The father in law didn’t want touch healing so I sat them down along with the staff at home and read out the “Nirvana Shatakam” and the explanation in English. Then gave them all distance healing collectively.
The father who had initially refused healing, looked at me thrice during the healing and calmed down totally, folded his hands in Namaste and lowered his head in acceptance. As I was leaving, he thanked me with a Namaste and waved a bye.
I felt very worthy of being a healer at this moment as even the staff said thank you for the healing and the sister in law said that now her Bhabhi has left the house.
Sikiladi 